Why are some people adamant on posting their self harm scars on Instagram several times a day?
I give up on like 98% of my rants a few words in bc it’s like who cares
The fact that boys (yes more than one) have rated me with a number (when I didn’t fucking ask!!!) still haunts me to this day. Like just don’t do that to people??? It’s so shitty
How to get (awful) boys to like you!!!
Step 1: be like them. share their “masculine interests”. laugh at sexist jokes. objectify other women bc lesbianism can be hot if ur hot and aren’t actually a lesbian (sexually unobtainable to men is a no no). trash talk other women. assert that you aren’t like ~them~. want sex. all the time. even if you don’t, say you do. men like that.
Step 2: don’t look like them. have big boobs. have exaggerated “womanly” curves (but don’t be fat this is v important). have long hair (only on head!!!!). be hairless everywhere else. wear “feminine” clothes. wear makeup (but don’t make it obvious you’re wearing any guys hate that. they’re all about that “natural” look so maybe just a little foundation concealer eyeliner mascara lipstick blush highlighter eyeshadow and fill in ur brows for a natural and effortless look).
Like you will be pressured to wear makeup and then will be called a superficial slut for wearing it. There is literally no way for a woman to be “satisfactory” to others.
Seriously though the difference in how men and women are expected to groom themselves is astounding. Unsurprisingly women are pressured to spend much more time and money into the matter. And to make matters worse we still only make about 70% of what men do (for the same work) and are constantly harassed about our personal grooming choices. Yay equality.